Dating at middle age
Contrary to this extended belief, research shows that many unmarried middle-aged and older adults aspire to date again and have the desire of companionship.
In fact, reports from the industry show that online dating has become the most common way for middle and older adults to meet marital partners.
'Looking back it was kind of crazy 'cause dating should be about two people trying to find out and working out if they suit each other.'But 'whatever kind of relationship' or 'whatever kind of dating' there are some rules that everyone can follow, she said. Kate encouraged daters of all ages to keep an open mind, saying there is 'no way' she would have picked her husband Derek, whom she married in 2005, if she saw him on a dating app.'And actually, he's the best thing that ever happened to me,' she added.
'Always make sure that you have confidence in yourself,' Kate said.
In contrast to women, men experience, in general, higher levels of depression going through divorce or widowhood, but they recover at a faster pace.'You have something to offer - and if they can't see it, someone else will.'The TV presenter also encouraged people to be on the lookout for a partner who compliments all the 'confidence the first 40 or 50 years of life have brought you'.In the age of online dating, safety has become a growing concern.The persistent belief is that women are looking for long-term committed relationship and men are looking for short-term sexual relationships.That may be true for younger people, but that isn’t always the case at this age, she says.